All very well put, but if you were to answer yes or no to 'would there have been any Irish attacks on Britain if there had been no brutal attempt to control our country by the British' I assume that you would answer 'no'.
What's been done can't be undone and we have moved forward.
Your assumption is naturally right, as Caveat says also. My issue is when this is used to justify any action. For every injustice there's been an equal injustice, some chose which ones to remember and which to filter out to support an agenda. I can't, one drop of innocent blood is one drop too much. We'll never know what, how, who or where we'd be without being under British Rule, we'll never know how the North would have developed if there had of been a complete handover and a complete Ireland. We could still be in a civil war now, we could be completely integrated. We could have 4 countries split along provinces, even worse we could be like Belgium. At least we're not like Belgium.
And your last point is, to me, the ultimate point.
Ancutza, I'm sure we've all recent and long past family histories from this Island and all related to British rule, as MrMan says we can't undo that, no one can. But I don't see how you can just ignore your other heritage and only focus on one-side.
I suppose my view is very selfish on this but in someway relevant I guess. With family decimated by famine, split up by immigration, and all the usual woes, but if they hadn't have happened my great great grandfathers wouldn't have met my great great grandmothers, who wouldn't have given birth to my great grandparents, who wouldn't have met and given birth to my grandparents, who wouldn't have met and given birth to my parents who wouldn't have met and given birth to me.
It's part of my history, I'll make sure that history lives with furture generations if only so they can be thankful (I hope) that we live in peaceful times, but also that they're the decendents of survivors and fighters. I'm not going to pass on the history to harbour resentment for deeds done in much different times to our own.
Like Purple I don't like Monarchies, any of them, even the ones that are just ceremonial. I also resent having to pay out to accomodate someone who fancies a visit just so politicians can pat themselves on the back and release a second book of memoires as to how great they were and we should forget all the bad corrupt stuff they did. I'll not bother going to see her, I won't watch any coverage on the television, not out of any resentment to her where she represents, but because all that stuff bores me anyway, irrespective of who they are.
I really doubt we'll see anyone (other than the odd ex-pat British) out waving union jacks, singing God Save the Queen or anything else. To be honest I detect more apathy to the whole thing than any other emotion and I actually think that's a good thing, in the modern vernacular "we're so over it". There you go: the apathy shows
how mature as a nation we are...