Only catching this thread now as in a similar debate myself but will pose a separate thread. It is a relatively interesting read around peoples opinions on the various cars out there.
However, I will make a few comments here around buying cars with young families, with babies, especially if you have parents down the country that you need to visit. We have 2 kids 20 months apart, with parents in rural Cork (3 hours drive) and Galway (2 hours drive) away. We visit each about 4 times a year, and obviously do not maintain a full stock of baby items at either house.
I echo Bronte's comments. I can't for the life of me understand why someone would replace their car(s) just because a new baby was on the way, unless their current car is a 2-seater or so old that safety is a concern. I love cars myself and totally understand people wanting to change but to do so because a little person is coming along doesn't make any sense to me. Regarding buggies, I would stay clear of anything unwieldy. Friends of our bought a monster of a yoke for about 1,000 euro and cursed it all the time. The trick is to get junior into a stroller as soon as you can as life gets so much easier. It's totally understandable for anyone expecting their first child to get the best of everything, but ask anyone with a few kids and they'll all say DoneDeal!
I am not picking on
@Firefly here but their post was the easiest to copy. Babies these days come with a lot of gear. A stroller is not a very good recommendation for a baby or any child below ~18 months, and are rarely suitable from birth. While not ideal, a proper travel system is needed until that age for the comfort of the child. Any child before they are crawling (~9-12 months) will spend most of their time in one of those, especially in a house that is not exactly baby proofed (think agricultural farmhouse here!). Try fitting a decent buggy (not stroller) into an average car boot with a suitcase, and your spare capacity will quickly disappear. That's before things like sterilisers, baby chairs, any toys, formula etc etc. And that's just the baby. Add a 2 year old toddler into the mix and its a different game.
I know some people talked here about letting the 40% side of the back seat down, but if you have 2 in car seats that is not really an option.
Reading these posts about Suv`s for junior and cars to accommodate all the essentials to go visit Grand-Ma makes me think how we ever managed bringing our own up, fitting the car seat, nappy bags, dropping them at sports events, take them on holidays abroad. Whether it be a Corsa, Corolla, Tiguan or what, we managed fine without child line knocking on our door.
I have this exact same discussion with my mother from time to time - "sure we managed with 5 of you". She forgets that we rarely went travelling as a full family outside of the local environment (until we were in our teens); there was no such thing as car seats- we all squashed into the car. Heading to Dublin was unknown never mind anywhere else. Overnight travel outside of a holiday was very unusual, and rarely were there holidays with a baby or toddler in the house.
If you are intent in changing the car, I would look for something that can handle the bashes and bruises that go with young kids and get something relatively cheap, big, safe and reliable. This to me would be a Toyota Avensis or similar.
This statement I would absolutely agree with. We purchased an Avensis shortly before our first was due - 2 year old, low mileage. It is a great car for two babies/toddlers. Fantastic boot space, great for the car seats and reasonable room in the back. Reliable and boring yes, but surely this is what you need with babies/toddlers in the car. They can climb in/out of it from an early enough age. It is cheap to tax, drive and service. Ticks all the boxes, except maybe aesthetics but that was not an important consideration for me with small kids. The back seats get destroyed with all sorts over the years anyway.
I think the SUV type models are better suited to the primary school years but that is a different thread