Woman proposing to the man!!!!

Hey, Angrygirl, this should 'encourage' you to 'do the right thing'.

During the half-time break in the Ireland Vs Colombia match, a couple went out into the centre circle and, in front of 18,000 people, the woman proposed. He accepted !!.
 
redstar said:
Hey, Angrygirl, this should 'encourage' you to 'do the right thing'.

During the half-time break in the Ireland Vs Colombia match, a couple went out into the centre circle and, in front of 18,000 people, the woman proposed. He accepted !!.
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We were watching that and i said to him god i'm mortified for her.. and he was like how come, i started laughin and said imagine he said no infront of all them people, he was like yea i suppose but when its left to the man they have to take that risk and the woman could say no..I just replied by sayin yea thats true but i think the man would know if the woman was ready tho cause generally the woman is ready before the man, he said yea thats true i suppose but there's nothin wrong with the woman doin it either, he also mentioned that he doesn't like long engagements and when he gets engaged he'd like to be married within the year!!!....

Mmmmm, i realised watching the woman doing it that it really isn't me at all, i'd like to be suprised and not worrying that i am pushing him into something he doesn't want..

We are getting a puppy this weekend, so thats commitement enough for me right now, we are happy together and thats the main thing, why rock the boat eh :)
 
My OH doesn't really want to get married. I do. Not enough for it to cause problems in our relationship but I do live in hope. When the leap year rolled around this year he asked me was I going to propose. I asked what he would say if I did and he said he would say yes. I still didn't propose though.
I want him to want to get married and not to do it just to make me happy. So I think it depends on your situation. If your OH has expressed a desire to get married then why not ask him? Although he may be building up to a proposal and you may steal his thunder :D

In my case I wouldn't ask as explained above. I know he is committed to me. We are together 6 years, have our home, jointly owned, a child and are discussing having another. As someone said above marraige is just moving on to another chapter. I hope to do it someday (especially in terms of our child and potential children) but I don't feel there is a big difference between being married and being in a long term committed relationship. Although I am starting to feel too old to be introduced as his "girlfriend". We don't like the term "partner" so I am usually introduced as his "better half". Someone needs to come up with a better descriptive as when I speak about my partner I have been asked on occasion "and what does he or she do?". Very PC :)
 
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