Lets get real here, people send their kids to private schools so they won't have to mix with the average Joe Soap who might live in council houses or in less affluent areas and who might speak with a "common" accent. Even if the average parent won the lotto in the morning and presented themselves to the local private school they would be refused admission because they wouldn't be considered to have the right background..
To sum up how you think, you believe that those who choose a private school for their kids,do so for the following reasons;
1) Parents don't want their kids to mix with the "average joe soap".
WRONG; Most of the kids in private schools are the kids of very average people.
2) They don't want their kids hanging around with council estates kids.
WRONG; Their kids would spend 8 years of primary school with kids from all areas and still hang out with them,and there are parents from council estates who have their kids in private schools,the only person that suffers is the kid,who has to put up with the slagging and isolation of the people who seem to think that the parents who do this, think they are better than the rest.
3) They don't want their kids to pal with those from "Less affluent areas".
WRONG: All of the kids in private schools are from a variety of areas..
4) They don't want their kids to pal with those who have a "Common accent".
WRONG: In a particular area,most of the kids speak the same way.
That has to be the biggest load of rubbish I have read in a very long time.
While I dont particulary wish to comment on such utter tripe,( Because to read it says it all), I will say the following.
I would send my kids to any school that didnt have parents who thought like the poster,private,public,RC,Church of Ireland ,educate together,anywhere to keep them away from this horrific/ignorant attitude.
I have had my kids in Private school, Public schools,grind schools, RC schools and Church of Ireland schools..
I also live in an area which has a lot of private schools,and the kids here,who go to the Public schools don't have what the poster calls Common accents,so that is utter rubbish!
The primary schools where I live,have the butcher the baker and the candle stick maker,so lets look at what happens to those kids when they leave 6th class..
They all live in the same area,They have spent 8 years together,some are from council estates some are not,the parents of those kids have all kinds of jobs,some have no work,so what is the deciding factor on which secondary school to send their kids too?
Having known the parents for the best part of the 8 years in primary school and having discussed the various schools and options available,here is the reality..
Some of the parents send their kids to the Public schools,reason is that most of the kids they pal with are going to the same school,and sometimes their brothers/sisters are also in that school and are doing very well.
Some send them to the more "Arty " type schools,reason..because that is the environment they want their kids to be in.They are usually Arty types themselves.
Some go to the Irish schools,(Public ) reason; they usually have a love of the language and want to pass it on.
Some send kids to the private schools, reason,mainly because their friends are also going,they may have brothers/sisters at that school who are doing well.
Some have the money to send their kids to a private school,but choose a public school that they believe better suits their childs needs..
Some dont have the money to send their kids to private schools,so they saved for years,or will sacrifice something to get their kids into the school which best suits their needs.
I do not believe that any parent would send their kids to a school that didn't suit them or that they would be unhappy in..
If the poster thinks that parents who send their kids to private school do so on the basis of the other kids accents,where they live etc ,then it is an incorrect assumption.
Now interestingly,all the kids that spent 8 years in primary school,who then went on to various different types of secondary school, all still keep in contact,and meet up,and go to the local disco and play on the same sports teams etc.
It is no doubt a begrudery ,that would make anyone think otherwise..
I would ask the poster if he has children in private schools? And if not what was the decision to not send them to one?
I would hope like most parents you did what you thought best for your child,sadly you seem to think anyone who doesnt make the same choice as you is doing so just to avoid council estate kids/common accents etc..it is your attitude that needs to be looked at..
Ill finish as I started, if I met parents who sent their kids to school based on the accents of the other kids ,then I wouldn't want my kids to be around such ignorance,and would not send them there.
The logical conclusion is that the parents of kids who have what the poster calls "Common " accents would also be as selective,ie they wouldn't send their kids to a school where the kids are from private estates,or are not "average joe soaps"..
And I don't believe any parent would be so ignorant on either side.
So lets get real here, as someone who has had kids in a variety of schools,public and private, I and most of the parents I know do what is best for the particular child,however if it makes some people feel better to believe that we choose based on the posters assumtions,well good luck to you,thankfully my kids wont be in the same schools!