Try "I was at breaking point..." vs "What worked best was her staying home..."Care to expand?
I agree. Thankfully they have made things much easier than they used to be.A. Govt & society shouldn't make it harder
Are you referring to the people who sacrifice time with their children in order to work hard and pay more of the taxes that find our very generous welfare and support systems?B. It seems to be the same people 'giving'
That's two different people talking about two different scenarios. It's certainly not a large enough sample size from which to deduce anything meanful.Try "I was at breaking point..." vs "What worked best was her staying home..."
We are all anonymous pseudonyms around here!from women on the thread versus some of the men.
Tht means that they work but their work is unpaid.Globally women spend 3 times as many hours in unpaid domestic and care work than men. That means they get to spend far more time with their children than men
I don’t think @Purple ’s opinions are unique. I agree with most of what he’s said in this thread anyway.I could try replying Purple, but to be honest, I'm pretty sure I'd be wasting my time.
Your personal experience (from previous posts) is definitely unique; your opinions equally so.
Yes, but why should anyone get paid to look after their own children?Tht means that they work but their work is unpaid.
unpaid domestic work is not "spending time with their children".unpaid domestic and care work than men. That means they get to spend far more time with their children than men
No, it includes childcare.unpaid domestic work is not "spending time with their children".
Unpaid domestic work is exactly that; it's not taking trips to the zoo or playground.
This is tangential.Yes, but why should anyone get paid to look after their own children?
When my children were younger I did the housework and washing and cooking and shopping. I did the homework and blow dried by daughters hair. I taught them all (boys and girls) to cook and sew and all that stuff. Nobody paid me to do that and it would be outrageous to think that anyone should. They are my children and that's my responsibility and my job and my privilege. I'd take spending my time doing that over working in a heartbeat. People who get to choose to work less and spend more time with their children are privileged not discriminated against.
oh well that's alright then.....No, it includes childcare.
Tangential to what?This is tangential.
Great, we're getting somewhere.oh well that's alright then.....
Not sure where you're getting, but I'm off at this stop!Great, we're getting somewhere.
Probably.I could try replying Purple, but to be honest, I'm pretty sure I'd be wasting my time.
Definitely not. Many single parents, most of them women, are in my position.Your personal experience (from previous posts) is definitely unique;
I don't think so.your opinions equally so.
Or ahead of 'what the Irish economy needs'. Many don't care that the exchequer probably wants them to work, get taxed, pay someone else to look after their children out of the net, with the carer also paying tax. Then consider the amount of care the child gets from sharing a care giver with N other children, versus N=1 on average, with a parent who takes on the job themselves.maybe they put taking care of their children ahead of being in the jobs market.......who would have thought!
Exactly what I was thinking.Or ahead of 'what the Irish economy needs'. Many don't care that the exchequer probably wants them to work, get taxed, pay someone else to look after their children out of the net, with the carer also paying tax. Then consider the amount of care the child gets from sharing a care giver with N other children, versus N=1 on average, with a parent who takes on the job themselves.
Edit: There is a value to spending time with your kids for many people also that seems to be missing from this discussion.
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