Negative quity is some form of contraception? This is one of the biggest entitlement hangovers of the Celtic Tiger. There is nothing wrong with starting a family in an apartment/small house.
Have you ever tried to raise kids in a one-bedroomed box apartment?
People in situations like this are not looking for handouts or bailouts or money from anyone. What they want is to be allowed transfer their negative equity from one property to another with the same bank.
In my situation, I bought small property that is now entirely unsuitable for my family's needs (and myself and my wife are probably best placed to judge what does or what doesn't meet our needs).
The loan (at 75% LTV) of a suitable sized home, plus the negative equity carry over on my current property, is well within my budget and affordability criteria, under any stress test scenario. We both have solid, sizeable incomes.
Renting out our current home and renting a more suitable property, something that is often suggested as a solution, is not a real runner for several reasons: the rental market in my area is hugely depressed because of over-supply.. renting it out at all, at any rent, would be a stunning achievement; I would be breaching the covenants on my mortgage because it would no longer be my PPR; I would be liable for tax on the rental income.
There is also the fact that I would become an investor in the property market. I don't want to be an investor, I want to be a homeowner - I never bought my property to make money. I bought a home - it just so happens not to be big enough anymore. I also don't want to raise my children in rental properties because I want them to have stability in their lives - renting is a temporary solution and the landlord can always take the property back if they want to sell it. And that will happen as soon as the market recovers at all..... I don't want to move my children from house to house every year or two....
I can easily afford to move house; the bank is already on the hook for the negative equity anyway; the bank's loan would be secured on a better asset; the negative equity would be reduced because of an injection of equity by me in the form of the deposit for the new house..... but the bank won't allow me to sell and move because, they say, the Financial Regulator has warned them off providing negative equity mortgages.
Can you not see how frustrating that is for someone like me? I don't want a handout from anybody - I have enough money of my own. I don't want to live in a mansion. I'm not frivolous or stupid or greedy. I just want to move house.