I do agree Shane that you need to calm down and now we see the actual situation you are in it makes things a lot clearer. One bit of advice, if that is your real full name I suggest you ask for it to be changed so the bank can not identify you. Or start a new thread with a different name if necessary.
Now that we know the real situation, one parent family, on the dole, trying to keep a roof over your head we can see what you are at, we can also see that you have been doing your best and in those circumstances most of us have no issue with you trying your best to sort it out to your benefit. Well done by the way on trying to start a business, that's a very brave thing to do, and it failed, but you will learn from that experience, and well done too on telling us you are going to try again to be self employed.