Duke of Marmalade
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Darag, I think you lost your way with this analogy. The correct analogy is that the bank are demanding back the mortgage. Maybe there is negative equity, maybe not. The value of the house is somewhat irrelevant as the person may be struggling but is fully confident of paying pack the mortgage over time.To use an analogy, what do you do with some-one who you suspect is deep in negative equity with their home and who is struggling to keep up with their mortgage payments who for some reason you cannot allow to go bankrupt? About the worst thing you could do would be to guarantee their liabilities unconditionaly allowing them to rack up extra loans and put new TVs and holidays on their credit-card.
As the parent of this person you have no problem telling the bank to back off and that you will guarantee the mortgage. The alternative is to see your son and grandchildren thrown out on the street. Chances are the guarantee will cost you nothing, bit of a no brainer to me. Of course you make absolutely sure your son does not abuse this lifeline, so let us see what terms and conditions the government sets.