quarterfloun said:I'm with you Rd, I think the gentlemans (I have to be nice to keep Rainy off my back ) demise was unfortunate due to his choice of profession and standards of citizenship and his children are going to grow up perhaps the better for it. When the dust settles and these children and mother have finished from grieving hopefully will look at the facts and realise that crime does not pay. Perhaps the Widow will meet a nice man (from any community - settled or unsettled) who has more moral fortitude than her previous selection and can provide these orphans with a more suitable (in terms of law abiding and respect for others) role model. Thus I can see good coming out from this situation.
Now the comments are just getting plain ridiculous.
I'm sure all gentlemen posting here would consider themselves as a "nice man", but what are the chances that if any of you would be in the position to meet this widow and even consider marrying, settling down, that you actually would?
Given you're lack of sympathy for the man himself, and the children, aren't you by extrapolation going to think less of this widow as well.
As in, what kind of woman would marry and have children with a man like this?
She's damned as much as the rest of the sorry people in this discussion on the basis of what a lot of comments are reflecting here, so the chances of her meeting a "nice man" are slim to none.
(And please don't come back with the "I'm married already" response. You're all talking about hypothetical situations here anyway, so leave that one out of it too.).