I went to the bank before I posted the original thread and offered them several options, as a solution to
our (i.e. the bank and me) problem.
- I would service the loan as an interest only mortgage, and take my chances that in 10 years time the market would have recovered enough for us all to get out alive.
- I asked them if they would give me a break with the level of interest I'm currently paying. ( I'm locked into 5 1/2 % for the next three years)
They dismissed both suggestions out of hand.
People have said that I need to take responsibility for my actions and they are right ,I have to a certain extent been blinded by my anger.
But so do the banks need to take responsibility for their actions.
How can it be right that I and thousands like me should carry
all the responsibility and burden of this problem, when you consider the lunatic, irresponsible behavior of the banks in all of this.
Should I just lie down and accept what the bank says, or should I "grow a pair" as one OP suggested and make some kind of stand.