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weejojo
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Can anyone advise on this please. I loaned a guy I dated almost €3,000 over the course of our relationship. This was mainly rent, household bills, nights out etc and all sorts of other sundries, I even paid for him to go and visit his parents in the UK, Iknow silly me! He did start off paying me but then stopped at 300 saying he had other issues/debts. This was not good enough and I organised monthly instalments to which he agreed (verbally of course).
Due to the downturn in the market he has recently been made redundant and is quite happy to sit home waiting on a new job finding him. This relationship has now ended badly with me having to ask him to leave due to the fact that he became really aggressive (physically and emotionally) and also that I will no longer carry him financially. I have dates, times and amounts etc when the money was loaned and the receipt for rent/deposit paid on our apartment. While I do not have receipts I have visa/bank statements listing rent/other sundries etc and I also have texts I sent him regarding the return of the money.
I feel really foolish and betrayed and would be very interested to know if there is any way of recouping the money from him? A friend suggested contacting his family and explaining the situation to them as it has now come to light that he is owing quite a lot of people cash although none to the degree that he owes me. All advice welcome.
Due to the downturn in the market he has recently been made redundant and is quite happy to sit home waiting on a new job finding him. This relationship has now ended badly with me having to ask him to leave due to the fact that he became really aggressive (physically and emotionally) and also that I will no longer carry him financially. I have dates, times and amounts etc when the money was loaned and the receipt for rent/deposit paid on our apartment. While I do not have receipts I have visa/bank statements listing rent/other sundries etc and I also have texts I sent him regarding the return of the money.
I feel really foolish and betrayed and would be very interested to know if there is any way of recouping the money from him? A friend suggested contacting his family and explaining the situation to them as it has now come to light that he is owing quite a lot of people cash although none to the degree that he owes me. All advice welcome.