Happy New Year to everybody!
2 of my kids will be finishing college this year and will be starting work.
Following work placement, Child #1 has already been offered a job with a US multi-national company and will be starting in September. His starting salary is just over €71K.
Child #2 is in the medical field and has done placements during her course. Last summer (2021) one of the hospitals she worked in took her on for the summer, with full pay. She's hoping that she might get a permanent job in the same hospital when she finishes. She'll be expecting a salary of around €35K.
It's been a financial struggle for my wife and I to get them this far - see this thread - but it has been wort it.
As they'll be earning, they'll need to contribute towards the costs. However, I'm not sure how much we should be asking for. Is it fair to ask child #2 to be paying the same as child #1 considering the difference in salary? I know if they were renting a place of their own, the salary difference wouldn't come into it. If they are going to live at home for a while, we'd like them to contribute towards their "keep" as well as save towards getting a place of their own. I'm wondering how much other parents are getting from their kids who are in full time employment?
2 of my kids will be finishing college this year and will be starting work.
Following work placement, Child #1 has already been offered a job with a US multi-national company and will be starting in September. His starting salary is just over €71K.
Child #2 is in the medical field and has done placements during her course. Last summer (2021) one of the hospitals she worked in took her on for the summer, with full pay. She's hoping that she might get a permanent job in the same hospital when she finishes. She'll be expecting a salary of around €35K.
It's been a financial struggle for my wife and I to get them this far - see this thread - but it has been wort it.
As they'll be earning, they'll need to contribute towards the costs. However, I'm not sure how much we should be asking for. Is it fair to ask child #2 to be paying the same as child #1 considering the difference in salary? I know if they were renting a place of their own, the salary difference wouldn't come into it. If they are going to live at home for a while, we'd like them to contribute towards their "keep" as well as save towards getting a place of their own. I'm wondering how much other parents are getting from their kids who are in full time employment?