I said it looks do able not that it made sense. Your bank doesn't think it makes sense. Can we run through why that is? And also why do you think they said no. It's good to have a real situation with real figures.
Also can you afford interest rate hikes? Why do you want to move. What size and approximate location are you living in.
My questions are not directly at you, but it's very hard to deal with this in an abstract way so if we could discuss a real sitation, yours, it's easier to deal with the concept.
I posted a reply to you earlier but it was very brief, so I'm editing it here. You said it was good to have a real example. All helpful suggestions are welcome.
Reasons why the bank think it doesn't make sense?:
I asked my bank several times if I could carry the negative equity but they said no straight away. They said the Financial Regulator will not allow them to create a negative equity mortgage. I emailed the CEO of EBS and provided figures, much as I did here earlier, and he said that negative equity mortgages were something they didn't do and would not be looking at just yet. The only option they will entertain will be for me to pay them the shortfall of a sale upfront.
Can I afford interest rate hikes?:
I can afford the 4.6% I'm currently paying. I was previously on a fixed rate of 5.8% and that was okay too. I could afford another percent or so. Genuine question - how much extra percent should I stress-test for?
Why do I want to move?
I currently live in a 1-bed apartment in a city centre location, I think it is approx 40msq. The idea would be to move to a more suitable size home to start a family. Honestly, our neighbourhood is not a nice place to bring up kids even if there was enough living space. Yes I was short-sighted to not plan ahead for kids when I purchased but that is the shortsightedness of being in your mid-20's.
We don't have any debts other than the mortgage. I have a credit card for occassional online purchases - if I order something I immediately transfer payment from the current a/c. We own a 2nd hand car that we bought outright. In previous years when I got a payrise I instanly increased the amount of my savings. I guess what I'm trying to make a point of here is that we don't live on credit and try to make decent financial decisions. Unfortunately the apartment mortgage was a bad mistake. I want to pay for this mistake (I don't want debt forgiveness) but would rather pay for it while living in a more suitable home. If I had to live here for another 10years I would go mad - and children would be an IVF option only (I'm not trying to curry sympathy, but there is an age where this becomes a fact).
Current situation:
Joint incomes of 60k, stable jobs.
Current mortgage is 179k with 24yrs remaining. The monthly repayment is eur970 (standard variable 4.6%). Neg equity could be estimated at 50k.
If I were allowed I would buy a new home valued at approx 200k.
I have deposit of 20k.
I would require a mortgage of 180k, plus to be allowed to carry forward 50k negative equity.
Total new mortgage of 230k, hopefully to extend the term to 30years. At the current variable rate of 4.6% it would be monthly payments of eur1,100.
Even if I were allowed to get a negative equity mortgage tomorrow I wouldnt do it instantly. I would prefer to save for another 12months and increase my deposit, knowing there was light at the end of the tunnel. But waiting another 5years would be quite dispiriting - this doesn't mean I want instant gratification on this subject, in reality I have been saving for some time to get my deposit together.