I was torn between building or buying a second-hand house. I have been planning my dream house for about 4 years, have a lovely elevated site with beautiful views but something just kept me from going ahead and building. I always felt that if I decided for example to put the cooker in a certain place and discovered it was completely in the wrong place when I moved in, I would be so mad with myself and would be too stubborn to move it, whereas when you buy a second-hand house, if you don't like where the cooker is, you don't mind moving it. Like Rebecca, I like constantly updating and improving on the previous owner's ideas. I bought a house that is now 18 years old and really only needs cosmetic updating. I have a big long wish list and while I'd love to change the whole house, I have to be realistic and practical and change things on priority. The back of my house is tarmaced but I would love a proper patio area, the front of my house has a tiny bit of grass which to me is stupid to be lugging the lawnmower around to so I would like to pave or cobble-lock it. Inside I have a pink bathroom suite and 10ft fireplace which has actually grown on me now. I bought a Dolle attic stairs yesterday which I'm getting installed next week along with coving in the hall and sitting room. I'm beginning to wonder if I should think about my dream house in the country again......