ok a bit more info...couple in qustion- guy has been out of work for few months now and relationship has been a bit strained due to money, uncertian future on the work side etc, guy does realise what he's done was wrong but doesnt consider it cheating, says its a sign that there are problems in their relationship and now is the time to bring it all out in the open....syas he may want to end it but not sure...girlfriend doesnt want to end it but cant get over him meeting up with someone else, feels he's cheated on her. he says that the rendevous is not the problem with them but the result of a trouble relationship..thats were he siad she should be glad that nothing happened, maybe they can save their relationship...question is would you go back to him???