Not sure I understand your point ! I (male) for one was absolutely screwed over in my divorce and am still paying unjustified spousal maintenance. Dont mind paying child maintenance, health insurance and school/college fees for my offspring. in fact I like all that and that I can be sure my kids have a comfortable life and acess to all oportunities. Spousal Maintenace to a tax dodging Microsoft employee and home dog minder is a step too far !
Of course there's male privilege, just as there's female privilege, the privilege of being born where we were born and when we were born, being born healthy etc.
I think the privilege of being born healthy and really smart is the greatest privilege there is. I wish I'd had that one.
If we are establishing a hierarchy of unearned privileges then distinguishing between genders amongst people who were lucky enough to be born healthy and able-bodied in a free and rich country in the latter end of the 20th century or the start of the 21st century makes very little sense to me.
Oh, and everyone has a hard time, from time to time.