The we is myself, my sister, family friend and my fathers solicitor. As there is only myself and my sister we both agreed to be put forward for committee with my fathers lifelong friend. Afterward I found out about my sister abusing her position in the bank she works in to transfer money from my fathers account. I have spoken to my fathers solicitor who said he doesn't want to rock the boat and I should just turn a blind eye if she agrees to give the money back. I don't think this is a good thing to do as she can not be trusted.