Just a little update for you. I took a week to think about this...and I have decided that I am going to write a formal compliant (though I have done this a few times before) and ask for a final letter with regard to their response, I am also going to ask for copies of all documentation with regard to the loan to be sent to me as soon as possible. If they respond and say they don't have them, I will ask them for a settlement figure and say I will pay €70 per month until that figure is paid off. At this stage I am so fed up with the whole thing, that even if/when I can afford to pay (and I would be stretching myself to limit to meet the repayments even with a fulltime wage) I think that is all I will I offer. What's the worst they can do? Take me to court, wreck my credit rating, as I said before, I can't see myself getting back on my feet within 6 years anyway, financially, not fully anyway so I don't think that will make much difference.
The one thing I will say though is that I was so scared - scared to answer the phone, scared when I heard the post hitting the mat and for what?! Madness, they can't take what I don't have.
Again, a huge thank you to all who replied. I will let you know what the response is - if I get one, I won't be holding my breath!