Duke
On question 1, I understand the 1 in 3 chance of her having two boys if we know that at least one of them is a boy: (BB) out of (BB, BG, GB).
On question 2, let's pose a different question. Suppose I ask her if she has a boy who was born between midnight and 1am on a New Year's Day. It will be astounding if I get a Yes. I will get No as the answer practically every time (probability 8765/8766 assuming equal probabilities - although I doubt the probabilities are equal: I would say that a heck of a lot fewer births are recorded between 11 and midnight on New Year's Eve than in the next hour, but that's a separate conversation). Therefore, getting the answer No to the second question is almost the same as not asking the question at all, so the probability of two boys is very close to 1 in 4. For other less challenging questions, the chance of two boys is greater than 25% but less than 33%. The less likely we are to get Yes, the closer the chance is to 1 in 4; the more likely we are to get Yes, the closer it is to 1 in 3. Am I on the right lines?