Further you pointing out that you survived a working mother with no adhd is not really scientific. Finally the article asks should a womans career be at the expense of motherhood.
I'm pretty sure having a job doesnt disqualify me from the job of a mother.
of course it doesnt disqualify you, you merely chose to give that job away to someone else. you have a job and the creche raises your children.
its your choice to abandon your child, you must really love your job. good luck with that.
Paddy
I am so not stressed, i am bloody angry that children lives are disrupted so that we can have it all and their needs are very much pushed into the background all in the name of political correctness and our acceptance as a society that this is the best way forward.
Sandrat
Finally the article asks should a womans career be at the expense of motherhood. This for me is the most important question in this whole debate.
Exactly. Leaving a child in a creche is hardly abandonment!Rigoletto - you are making no sense whatsoever.
Do you think that a child going to a creche = abandonment? What rubbish.
Rigoletto - you are making no sense whatsoever.
Do you think that a child going to a creche = abandonment? What rubbish.
How do you qualify the 'creche raises your children' comment? Is it impossible for you to see that a child only goes to a creche during the parents working hours? The way you phrase it one would think a child spends 24/7 in a creche, instead of 8-5 (or 9-6 or whatever), 5 days a week.
Rigoletto - you yourself have stated in this thread that YOU work. So by your own standards you have in fact abandoned your own child.
my wife chose to be a sahm and as such she raises my children until i return from work and then i help with the parenting. mother and father not total stranger from the creche.
have you children truthseeker?
But this logic contradicts your earlier points - you are saying people are 'abandoning their children' in creches and the kids are only fit for bed by the time they are collected. How are your children any different by the time you get home from work?
By your logic only your wife has a hand in raising them - not the person who works.
What does that matter? Where somebody does or does not have children does not determine whether or not they can comment on such issues.you never answered my question, have you any children truthseeker?
What does that matter? Where somebody does or does not have children does not determine whether or not they can comment on such issues.
I finsih work early and work flexi time (at the detriment of my career) so that i help in the rearing of my children.
you never answered my question, have you any children truthseeker?
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