The wording of the letter is completely unacceptable. I would suggest the OP and daughter get some legal advice as it is tantamount to extracting monies by menance.
I would also get a list of the names of the trustees/directors of the CU and circulate them with the letter asking if they want to be associated with its sentiments.
I would also request that the author be fired.
I would also get a list of the names of the trustees/directors of the CU and circulate them with the letter asking if they want to be associated with its sentiments.
I would also request that the author be fired.