Personal recommendation is one of the best ways of selecting an adviser. I don't really understand why you would feel that it is unfortunate that this is the norm. Do you not have friends whose opinions you trust and value
I've had no problem confiding in friends and asking for advice, especially those who have been through similar situations.We`re not good at confiding in people. I would have close friends, but if I were to confide, Id probably only tell them a one sided version on events, and that`s with the best will in the world, and that goes for the brilliant representation Id received. I wouldn't like to have felt short changed and admitted to it.
Its also a very personal matter, and I wouldn't want to wash my undies for all to see and make judgments on, no matter how close friends we are. Guys are just more reserved, where as Gals, well, are not, in general.
So for a bloke to be asking this question, going through your pals list for recommendation, is not really an option.
My sister in Law has gone through this process, berating the legal rep she received, but, I know shes hard work at the best of times, so they are probably wonderfully skilled at their job, but would not be getting the deserved endorsement.
I asked the very same question a while ago, but not in as good a way as the OP has outlined and framed this question. I would think that who ever he ends up with, having done his due diligence on them, will be a 5 star rating, pity well never know.
The legals don't seem to have the inclination to spend any decent lot of time prior to hearings with me to buoy me up/ prepare etc. but on the day in front of the judge they perform.
Maybe I'm odd (okay, I know I'm odd)
People like that are just insecure.
Indeed, and self abuse is also a sin (as the Christian Brothers used to tell me).I think that`s getting close to personal abuse, IMHO, and maybe should be reported for your own good.
I left an abusive relationship. I walked out of the house with nothing other than my clothes and 8 years later that's still all I have of the possessions that were in the house I bought and am still paying for. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I'm a better person and a much better father since I left. I have a good well paid job and I manage people and have the responsibility of making major business decisions regularly. I'm saying that not to show off but to show that anyone can be a victim of abuse. It's not a sign of failure or weakness. Without the support of family, but particularly of friends, I don't know if I'd have made it through it.Id say anyone going through the experience what Northie has very well explained would find it difficult, not to become somewhat insecure.
but I'd say there is a strong link between marriage and long term relationship breakdown and male suicide.
Hi Tom,I have an excellent one now. The first one was more expensive and we just didn't click. It's not all about money.
I got a proverbial kick up the backside from my solicitor. That's really what I got.Hi Tom,
Unfortunately I seem to have got in a mess picking my solicitor for my divorce, I'm very stressed, 3 1/2 years and still going over the same information I gave them at the start, could you kindly inform me what legal support you got, as I'm getting anywhere. Kindest Regards Robert
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