Thankfully we never had to go down this route, but we do know a few who had to and it is a very difficult journey for all
They should provide IVF to all or none.
Agree 100% with this statement. IVF is expensive and there are very few people who can afford to fork out for a number of IVF treatments in the hope of having a child. The majority of people who go down this route today have to be the professional classes - as others simply cannot afford it.
On average, you're looking at direct costs of about 15,000 for IVF in Ireland, with no guarantee of success.
I thought they were a bit lower than that at the moment, at around 10k. Please see sample costs from Rotunda as an example. But its definitely not cheap by any means.
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I would have concerns around eligibility and a few other aspects of it:
1. I would like to see it discounted rather than free. Personally I don't believe in free anything, and there should always be a charge for people to value it
2. I would also like it to be linked to PRSI stamps, so a minimum number of stamps paid before people are eligible. Would the partners stamps make a woman eligible - no idea !
3. Does the person have to be in a co-habitation couple or married to avail of it? Should the state pay for IVF followed by single mother allowance for the life of the child? This is a damned if you do, damned if you don't scenario
4. How many rounds of IVR should the state support? UK limits it to 2 per lifetime - seems reasonable enough to be.
5. Success rates are not very high in general - would there need to be medical qualifying criteria to be able to avail of the scheme. Would it need to be referred to from a GP or other once all other avenues have been exhausted
6. Should there be limits on age - so should an 18 year old be allowed to avail of it; what about a 60 year old?
7. What if the couple already have 4 children - should the state pay for IVF if they want a 5th ?
8. What about other forms of intervention - surrogacy etc?
Like everything, the devil is in the detail of the proposal. I am in favour of support here, as long as it is reasonable, minimises abuse and is based on medical evidence. IVF is not an easy journey to take, and given the failure rates can be very hard emotionally on the couples, but the female in particular.
This is a very difficult event for a large amount of people, probably not helped by the professional classes in particular getting married older and trying to have kids older. I am sure there is some interesting reading for some on the below forum on fertility issues and experiences..
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