Bronte wonders whther the actions of those borrowers was "stupidity,naivety or greed."
I have argued in several threads that it was also because of heavy pressure from all sort of expert sources - bankers, mortgage advisors, the government.
Banks giving 100% mortgages based on values that they, as experts, should have had a better idea of than a young couple. No real checks on peoples incomes -or even if they did check they'd offer several times the level of income.
. I had twenty people in their twenties and thirties working for me ten years ago then. The pressure from banks, govenrment, media and peers to buy,buy,buy was intense. (There weren't many David McWilliams around and if there were they were mocked -"they should commit suicide" said Bertie.)
I suggest that the OP may have been one of those tens of thousands of people who
were given the wrong advice after a lot of pressure.
You can say that they should have known better than to listen to the banks, govnt etc -but society doesnt work like that. We're all influenced by norms of society - and the norm in 2001-2006 was "buy now whatever happens and here's loads of money".
So, calling those borrowers "stupid,greedy or naive" seems somewhat harsh.
Maybe "naive" only in the sense they were not experts -and that's who the borrowers turned to - the experts, the very people who are unpunished by their actions whilst still squeezing the people they misled.
Incidentally, I don't think that most borrowers feel they are blameless. I know many of my ex-staff who DO feel they were silly/guilty-they're kicking themselves.
Frankly, I don't think those borrowers should feel guilty.
I wouldn't blame someone who goes to a doctor, is prescribed the wrong medicine yet sees the doctor unpunished(indeed richly rewarded) and, even worse, the patient still has to swallow the wrong medicine.
The doctor, the medical expert, would be sued - why then not the financial expert ?