Bronte
Firstly Im not asking for your opinion weather I was reckless in buying a home or not, the point is I wasn't deemed reckless when signing for my home and more importantly I didn't feel reckless because at the time I was financial able to make that purchase, so knowing point 3 or any other point of your report is of no help to anyone in a dreadful situation we find ourselves in today
You have my complete sympathy. It is an awful position to be in and, to make it worse, you are being villified for being 'reckless'.
Back in 2005 or so, if you had a joint income of X and were offered a mortgage of 2X , you should have discounted it by 60% because one of you was going to lose their job and the other subject to paycuts/levies, etc. Also, it should have been discounted by a further 60% to reflect a firesale price when the inevitable crash came. Oh, and don't forget to factor in a tripling of mortgage rates (which hasn't happened, thank god). So, to put figures on this:
Salary: €100,000
Mortgage: €200,000
Discounted for future unemployment: €120,000
Discounted for price drop: €48,000
Discounted for 3x increase in interest rates: €16,000
so, if you were being prudent and had 20-20 future vision, you would have discounted anything that was offered and seemed affordable by 92%. You didn't do this? Well, silly you. All the other posters did and that's why they are sitting pretty today.
The fact is that with 20-20 hindsight NO-ONE but NO-ONE should have bought or built a house under any circumstances since about 2001.
I am in complete awe of everyone who saw this one coming to the extent that it did. I presume they shorted bank shares, bought Apple and Gold and are multi squillionaires today.