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Please spare us the emotional blackmail: families would NOT be out on the street - they would be in a lovely rental, of which there are many.Crazyone
families have only got the roof over their heads and there is no such scheme to deal with all the families that would be out on the street, it was a crazy statement to make and will only cause more hurt to people in already awful circumstances.
..families would NOT be out on the street - they would be in a lovely rental, of which there are many.
What's your basis for this statement?
On prime time the statement was made that "losing your home was good for" the 20,000 or so mortgage-holders that are hopelessly insolvent.
Who will provide the rental properties for these families under your model?
Where will the rent come from?
Who will maintain the properties?
Where do we think these families would be living if they had not taken mortgages in the first place?
Please don't anyone have a cheek to tell me we deserve what we get for being greedy. When we got our mortgage, we did the sensible thing and only borrowed what we could afford. We live in a rural area and at the time we built our house renting wasn't an option - we purchased a site and built a modest 3 bedroom family home. A few years later we added a garage. Thats it - nothing more, nothing less.
We never had the luxury of going on holidays or driving new cars so please do not tar all mortgage holders with the one brush. Yes there have been many who did borrow recklessly but many more just borrowed what they needed, and then circumstances changed.
I am not looking for sympathy or pity just a little bit of understanding.
This site is full of people who love pointing the finger and tuting down the unfortunate people like yourself Ryandd.
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We are one of those families who are in financial trouble. And believe me we did not borrow more than we could afford. We built our house back in 2000 when both of us were working in good solid permanent jobs. Roll on 10 years, I have lost my job and my DH wages have gone down to below what he was taking home back 10 years ago (oh and btw he is a public servant) and I get a whopping €13 a week on Jobseekers!!! We also now have 4 kids to support.
Please don't anyone have a cheek to tell me we deserve what we get for being greedy. When we got our mortgage, we did the sensible thing and only borrowed what we could afford. We live in a rural area and at the time we built our house renting wasn't an option - we purchased a site and built a modest 3 bedroom family home. A few years later we added a garage. Thats it - nothing more, nothing less.
We never had the luxury of going on holidays or driving new cars so please do not tar all mortgage holders with the one brush. Yes there have been many who did borrow recklessly but many more just borrowed what they needed, and then circumstances changed.
I am not looking for sympathy or pity just a little bit of understanding.
Liaconn I don't see preening lectures on here. But are we not allowed to question what happened without anyone in negative equity seeing it as a personal attack on them. .
Stop making generalizations
Stop blaming
Stop complaining
Stop waiting for the silver bullet
Look to the future
Start helping family and friends if you have the means.
Start contributing to your community if you have time either by choice, retirement or job loss. Share your skills – develop new ones.
Start looking for job creation opportunities either for yourself or others.
Start making decisions based on critical think not based on what the neighbours are doing or what it says in the newspaper supplement.
Excellent post ontour.
While the human aspect of this has to be looked at, so too, unfortunately, does the financial cost of it. I don't think there's anybody on here "pointing the finger" as one poster put it.
The point I've made previously is that sometimes we make decisions that don't turn out well. We, as adults, have to as best we can deal with the consequences of our decisions.
I agree wholeheartedly with ontours attitude, we're in one hell of a mess, and we have to work our way out. Unfortunately, as far as I can see, there is no silver bullet solution. And blaming the banks, Estate Agents, Newspapers, or even ourselves won't change the past.
For a long as we look back and are intent on finding people to blame, we will not get out of this mess.
I would have no dispute with anything said in the above post. Yes the Banks did take a reckless attitude to lending money and as is normal in these circumstances have suffered significant losses as a result. Is it right that senior bankers who by the reckless and incompetent actions cost their banks and their country billions should retire on comfortable pensions? No it's not. Is it right that those who followed the advice of the Bankers and borrowed above their means should now have to suffer all of the consequences of the subsequent economic collapse? No it's not. So what can and should be done to rectify this position?If a bank CEO earning over a million a year (and still on a pension of a third of that) tells young couples that they'd be silly not to buy and here's loads of money - is anyone really saying that the bank should not share the loss?
Are some posters really saying it was entirely the purchasers fault that they bought?
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