Simeon - I am ignorant about your reference to "Only Fools"..........what is this?
The idea of the albatross is evoked for me by this thread whilst I fully recognise it may not have that resonance for others. However the situation of the OP could well be seen as a contemporary Irish cultural icon and the extraordinary emotional (as well as financial) investmentproperty-market seen as a saga of hubris and reparation.
Perhaps this was not sufficiently clear in my post but I have suggested to the OP that in this case, in her case there is another dimension which is personal rather than commercial or financial. Trying to force or rush herself to 'the right decision' in terms of a practical decision given the emotional dimension in her case makes this an impossible undertaking at present. If Elainem can let herself off the self-imposed hook of deciding quickly and deciding 'correctly' - whatever that means - she can take the necessary space for the emotional work around this issue. When that is complete she will have no difficulty deciding what to do with the property, and doing it.
The idea of the albatross is evoked for me by this thread whilst I fully recognise it may not have that resonance for others. However the situation of the OP could well be seen as a contemporary Irish cultural icon and the extraordinary emotional (as well as financial) investmentproperty-market seen as a saga of hubris and reparation.
Perhaps this was not sufficiently clear in my post but I have suggested to the OP that in this case, in her case there is another dimension which is personal rather than commercial or financial. Trying to force or rush herself to 'the right decision' in terms of a practical decision given the emotional dimension in her case makes this an impossible undertaking at present. If Elainem can let herself off the self-imposed hook of deciding quickly and deciding 'correctly' - whatever that means - she can take the necessary space for the emotional work around this issue. When that is complete she will have no difficulty deciding what to do with the property, and doing it.