In some cases (and my own better half is a case in point), she took an elongated leave of absence whilst the smallies were very small and then when she did return to work, it as on reduced hours As part of that, we moved out of Dublin to her home town to have that network of family around to support us if needed. However I am conscious that not everyone can do that. Therefore, is there not a bigger issue here firstly that needs to be tackled, namely the cost and availability of affordable childcare? I'm aware of people where it made no financial sense for both of them to continue working so one gave up.