Piper, I don't know your background or your gender, you are anonymous to me.
I was just wondering, as you left the query here for 13 months, and you are concerned about legal costs, whether, although legal advice must be pretty urgent for you at this stage, it might be worth having a discussion with a counsellor first or even someone from the MABs (money advice and budgeting) service regarding the likely legal costs and your finances.
I would imagine you must have very strong feelings about this which are making it hard for you to act. But I am only guessing and could be very wrong. Usually when you can't make a decision it's because you don't have enough information that is clear to you. But sometimes it's because there are other factors paralysing you.
With best wishes
Imogen
I was just wondering, as you left the query here for 13 months, and you are concerned about legal costs, whether, although legal advice must be pretty urgent for you at this stage, it might be worth having a discussion with a counsellor first or even someone from the MABs (money advice and budgeting) service regarding the likely legal costs and your finances.
I would imagine you must have very strong feelings about this which are making it hard for you to act. But I am only guessing and could be very wrong. Usually when you can't make a decision it's because you don't have enough information that is clear to you. But sometimes it's because there are other factors paralysing you.
With best wishes
Imogen