It certainly is an interesting thread as it does give insights into places that people experienced for longer periods, and it has revealed views and opinions that can help one make a decision.
However, regarding waterwater's "milking" expression, I think what was meant was:-
After five pages of a thread with many useful suggestions over a few weeks one should by now commence drawing to a conclusion or at least a short-list of two or three places.
By advising us of your choice of "finalists" we could better help you narrow it down.
But just basically repeating twice with some small refinement the same question as in your OP (in bold lettering to boot) may weary the reader
and not elicit the response you desire.
I think that was meant by the word "milking".