My husband wants to pool our assets. Must I do so?
Q&A: Second families can create additional tension when it comes to inheritance
www.irishtimes.com
This is a national newspaper in which the columnist states (to a lady who feels pressurised to agree a will with her current husband)
Finally, what happens if you do consent to drawing up your will alongside him with the same solicitor and in the terms your husband is encouraging – if only to preserve the peace? Could you change it yourself? ....There is nothing to stop you changing your will although I would suggest it is done through a solicitor of your choosing – especially if you have already made a legally valid will in the company of your husband.
This guidance is of course dangerously wrong (and in fairness is accompanied by a "Not A Lawyer" disclaimer) - -but the point I wish to make is not that newspaper columnists cannot be relied on for legal advice but that this relatively commonplace situation illustrates the sort of risk-strewn landscape which your solicitor is paid (and insured) to navigate on your behalf.
Doing this work properly take legal expertise and time.
It is not doing the public any favours to pretend that it can sustainably be done at €150 a pop.