Hi, sorry to read about your situation, I suspect we'll be seeing more of this over the next 12 months or so. Personally I would plan staying put for the forseeable future. A couple of points:
a) if you plan having 1 or 2 kids in the next few years, thats a serious hit on the cost of childcare from what I understand (maybe €1.2-1.5k + per month?). Can you afford that right now? If so, can you you afford to start putting that off your mortgage right now to reduce the chances of negative equity. If you can't afford to do that right now - can you really afford to have 2 children in the next few years?
b) your spouse earns 30k gross per annum - having an office which takes up a bedroom is a serious piece of real estate to generate an income of 30k. To be honest I coulnd't justify that myself for a salary like that.
c) can you or your spouse generate bextra income by changing job or getting a part time job which would help to drive down the outstanding mortgage. Years ago getting a part time job was pretty normal to help pay bills but it seems so 70s/80s now.
Apart from that suspending pension contributions to pay down mortgage sounds like a good idea but I do think you need to readjust your expectations and plans to take account of circumstances. You're still young, this will be one of several speed bunps you'll hit along the way and you'll need to be realistic to be happy.
Hope it works out
Roy
a) if you plan having 1 or 2 kids in the next few years, thats a serious hit on the cost of childcare from what I understand (maybe €1.2-1.5k + per month?). Can you afford that right now? If so, can you you afford to start putting that off your mortgage right now to reduce the chances of negative equity. If you can't afford to do that right now - can you really afford to have 2 children in the next few years?
b) your spouse earns 30k gross per annum - having an office which takes up a bedroom is a serious piece of real estate to generate an income of 30k. To be honest I coulnd't justify that myself for a salary like that.
c) can you or your spouse generate bextra income by changing job or getting a part time job which would help to drive down the outstanding mortgage. Years ago getting a part time job was pretty normal to help pay bills but it seems so 70s/80s now.
Apart from that suspending pension contributions to pay down mortgage sounds like a good idea but I do think you need to readjust your expectations and plans to take account of circumstances. You're still young, this will be one of several speed bunps you'll hit along the way and you'll need to be realistic to be happy.
Hope it works out
Roy