Then you have a serious problem and need to learn to budget and save, instead what you are doing is trying to get into more debt without paying off what you aleady owe, living outside your means and not saving to fund what you wish for.
We I don’t regret doing any thing we have done in the last couple of years and wouldn’t change a thing, life is for living J
Apart from the car loan, wedding loan, small credit card debt and mortgage that’s all be have borrowed. In the last couple of years we have enjoyed nice holidays, allot socialising, shopping, had a baby in a private hospital (Wifes decision) and funded two business ventures in the couple of years all with out borrowing and I don’t regret it.
We are still youngish both 32, but my problem has always been that I’m impulsive and when I see something I want it now.
I do agree though we should budget better and save for the things we want, which is what we intend on doing in the future. As i mentioned above we intend on trying to save 3k plus a month.
Our outgoing are still pretty high, but we are working on reducing them.
What would you advise? When we purchased the house we had intended on it being short term (5-6 years) Now would like something bigger.