@ArthurMcB the way I see it is, at the moment you have nothing, except some guy who 5 months ago said he would buy your house. You have no contract, I assume no property valuation has been done and no property survey has been done. So in other words
NOTHING has taken place to indicate this guy is going to follow through on what he said.
Can you imagine if you went down to your local main Mercedes dealer and said I will buy that car, 'Please take it off your forecourt now, no I'm not giving a deposit and I'm not signing any purchase contract for at least for 5 months maybe more' . The
car would remain 'For Sale' on the forecourt and you know what you would be told!!
Do the same with your house.
As far as I can see its close to completing but iv been thinking that 2 months ago.
How can it be, when contracts haven't even been exchanged?
Whereas current bidder, as I understand it, is close to drawing down.
This is another thing I have a problem with (I strongly suspect you are been spun a yarn), how can he be '
close to drawing down', drawing down against what ? Think about it, there is no legal agreement to buy your, or indeed, any property, there has been no valuation done (assumption) and what lending agency would give hundreds of thousands of Euro to a guy who just
said he's going to buy a/ some/ any house ?
It is usual to 'draw down' on the day, or day before completion of sale.
I know if it were me, I would feel I'm being strung along and would vehemently resent it.
As mentioned previously, the EA is meant to be working for you, tell him (don't ask) you are putting it back on the market immediately,
if the original guy is serious he will move on it, if not, it was never going to happen.
Just my 'tuppence' worth.