A couple of points I would like to make.
I don't get how any parent leaves a baby in a crèche for up to ten hours a day.
I don't get why anyone is expected to look after five or six toddlers for ten hours a day.
I don't get why they are paid so little.
I don't buy the "more training".
I do buy,the person who is into this type of job and then training.
If you take my sister in law ,who is a teacher of children in fifth class,she starts at 8:30 and finishes at 2:30,she is paid well,has a proper break,and has lots of holidays,now compare that to screaming toddlers ,perhaps five or six,for up to ten hours every day,and getting paid a minimum wage and very little holiday time,there is no comparison.
Ok,she has gone to college for three years so deserves more pay,fair enough,but honestly it seems to me,that those who are looking after the most vulnerable of all,are treated the worst,and paid the lowest.
I have heard many union reps speak of the difficult task of nurses for example ,that they have to clean an adults privates for example,and yet the ones who need to do this with several children ,day in day out,seem to be ignored.
Just in case any one should say that I'm bringing the public sector into this ,let me be crystal clear,a cleaning lady in the local supermarket would have a less difficult job,A taxi driver ,Etc,but I'm trying to compare similar jobs and teachers and nurses would be an example.
Does anyone believe that this is a suitable environment for a baby ? I was just as worried if not more worried by how many children were so compliment,isn't that telling us something?
I get why parents who send their kids to crèches ,feel the need to defend them,what else can they do,the other option is admitting its not a great idea,and what parent wants to admit that ,when they need to justify it.
The parents who choose this option,are in the main making a lifestyle choice.reason being this practice was happening during the boom years when both parents didn't have to work.
Perhaps now they have no choice but to work,but if you didn't have to work ,why would you ..
Parents should be able to leave their kids in safe hands,but you always take a chance.
Most parents who look after several toddlers at home will tell you how difficult it is,yet we expect everyone else to get on with them,not to give out to them etc etc.
I would rather that person be me,their mother.
Do I have a solution..maybe..
Mothers or fathers who choose to stay at home be allowed to leave their employment,get an allowance equal to the difference in what they earn and what they would pay a crèche,my guess is that's not a lot in most cases.and it would be capped.
This in effect would mean more jobs would become available,more parents who don't want to leave their children can be with them,and this should happen until school starting age.
Most child are workers seem to me to be early school leavers,in my experience they are also young girls and we all know how hard it is to look after one toddler never mind several screaming ones.
Parents are paying a lot and it should go without saying that their children are treated with care,I wouldn't like to be a parent who has no choice but to leave a baby into a crèche for ten hours a day,but would absolutely hate myself if I left them their because of my need to be in the workforce.
In the meantime while we wait for etopia,I would try limit as much as possible the amount of time they spend there,I would hope that some assessment of suitability of child care workers comes into force and should they pass that , they get the best training,I also would hope that they get properly paid for what has to be a very difficult job.
But mostly I hope children get the chance to be at home ,safe,with a caring ,less worried,less stressed .parent.
Reading over my post,I think I come across as being on the side of those who work in crèches,and I am,for everyone's peace of mind ,things need to change.
I also feel very sad for the poor babies and toddlers who have no choice in any of this.
I feel sad for the poor parents who have no choice in the matter.
I feel disgusted by the treatment of the little kids,and I believe any parent who leaves their child into someone's care should be comfortable and secure in the knowledge that their child will be cared for.
No amount of training will give anyone a heart.