Hi Pippi
I know exactly how you feel. Like you we are first time buyers and put our deposit down on our house last July and were given a date of December. We were so excited to think that we would be in our first home together for Christmas. December started to approach fast and we realised that we had no word from the estate agent regarding our choices and we started to get a little worried. I phoned them to ask if they had any update and they said "oh that has been changed to March" and they were sending out our choices to us. I was a little annoyed to think that they didn't even call us to mention this change and that it was up to me to call them. We received our choices the day before Christmas Eve. We were concious that they had told us March that our house would be ready so we rushed out as soon as business's re-opened after the xmas break to choose our kitchen and fireplace. Then March started to come very close and still no word so again it was up to us to contact the estate agent. We were then told May/June. We happened to phone the developer one day about a request we put in to be done to the house and they told us that the date had now changed to August. We were really annoyed at the fact that firstly the estate agent did not ring us once to tell us of the many date changes and secondly that it had now gone from December to August, a year since we had put out deposit down. I would have preferred if they had told us that we could be waiting up to a year before completion. At least then we wouldn't have had such a big let down each month that we thought we were to move in. It really takes the excitment out of buying your first home. Hopefully they will surprise us and tell us a nearer date than August but I'm not getting my hopes up.
I know exactly how you feel. Like you we are first time buyers and put our deposit down on our house last July and were given a date of December. We were so excited to think that we would be in our first home together for Christmas. December started to approach fast and we realised that we had no word from the estate agent regarding our choices and we started to get a little worried. I phoned them to ask if they had any update and they said "oh that has been changed to March" and they were sending out our choices to us. I was a little annoyed to think that they didn't even call us to mention this change and that it was up to me to call them. We received our choices the day before Christmas Eve. We were concious that they had told us March that our house would be ready so we rushed out as soon as business's re-opened after the xmas break to choose our kitchen and fireplace. Then March started to come very close and still no word so again it was up to us to contact the estate agent. We were then told May/June. We happened to phone the developer one day about a request we put in to be done to the house and they told us that the date had now changed to August. We were really annoyed at the fact that firstly the estate agent did not ring us once to tell us of the many date changes and secondly that it had now gone from December to August, a year since we had put out deposit down. I would have preferred if they had told us that we could be waiting up to a year before completion. At least then we wouldn't have had such a big let down each month that we thought we were to move in. It really takes the excitment out of buying your first home. Hopefully they will surprise us and tell us a nearer date than August but I'm not getting my hopes up.