Hi Gonzo,
I think you made absolutely the right decision. Things will be hard for a while, but you know, you'll probably end up with a finished house for much less money, and much smaller debt. Hang in there! But please make sure you go to your solicitor and sign and agreement with your boyfriend, particularly if your parents are going to chip in.
Re your engineer, if you like, and if the bank are putting you under pressure, you could ask him to give a limited opinion on compliance, listing the items yet to be completed. Your solicitor can disclose the problem to the bank (as they are probably aware of it anyway) and you can keep working on the house.
Best of luck with everything!
Kate.
I think you made absolutely the right decision. Things will be hard for a while, but you know, you'll probably end up with a finished house for much less money, and much smaller debt. Hang in there! But please make sure you go to your solicitor and sign and agreement with your boyfriend, particularly if your parents are going to chip in.
Re your engineer, if you like, and if the bank are putting you under pressure, you could ask him to give a limited opinion on compliance, listing the items yet to be completed. Your solicitor can disclose the problem to the bank (as they are probably aware of it anyway) and you can keep working on the house.
Best of luck with everything!
Kate.