Re: notified by the bank to close up all the accounts within 21 days and pay off bala
Dear Senni. I am very sorry to read your post, I didnt have a chance to read yet about your brothers post, i will later and will post you later....but as a general advice, which I apologize in advance if i am wrong, here follows my advice:
1) Dont deal with the banks directly, get help from Mabs. You take everything personally as you are involved, but mabs wont...obviouslly!-this way you wont get stressed.
2) never take up loans to pay loans, thats stupid...yep, thats the word. Thats what put me on the situation where i am at the moment
3) define priorities, and by that i mean, ood at the table, clothes for the family, morgage....and so on...
4)dont forget that no matter how bad your situation is, there is a lot of people in this world way worse than you, keep smiling, its good for the soul...and finally...
5) Live your life and pay as much as you can, you can only do as much...
hope this helps, thats what i am doing.