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If you are selling a house you'll take an offer from the highest bidder but you are of the opinion that it is somehow dishonourable to sell your labour to the highest bidder.
However, the difference here is that your career is not a game - the stakes are very high.
If you walk into your boss with another job offer in your hand, your boss is never going to think about you the same way again.
When your boss is looking for a good candidate to promote, this will be a factor. When your boss is divvying up the 'bonus' budget, this will be a factor.
If you think you are underpaid, by all means, tell your boss & produce supporting evidence. If you want to leave & get another job, do so. But don't 'play the game' of bringing in the job offer just to get a salary increase.
Ireland is too small a world!
The squeeky wheel gets the oil. If you want something, ask for it. (This is even in the Bible!). If you don't get it, leave and find it elsewhere. Discontentment and negativity isn't going to do anyone any favours.
Then you proceed to argue that in order to preserve your relationship with your employer you shouldn't be too forceful when negotiating for a salary increase.
Perhaps - but sometimes that may be what it takes
Rainyday, are you a civil servant? (or maybe the taoiseach
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