too be honest im so afraid of losing my home(not the happiest xmas ive ever had!)that i havent even worked out if im able to afford the mortgage.
Very understandable. Time for the tough love approach though
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Suck it up. You'll be unable to really get it sorted and resolve the issue, meaning you no longer have to worry about it, unless you look at it logically and see exactly where you stand!
momomo said:
Im meeting my uncle tonight and im going to work out sums with him. I could afford the mortgage and bills at a push, but renting a room would definately make this obtainable.
When considering rent, go with worst case scenarios. Go with the lowest rent you feel is possible, not the highest. Look at a rental period of 9 or 10 months a year not the full 12 (unless you have family/friends who can
confirm rental long term).
Again, hopefully some of our experts can spell out the specific needs.
You're currently looking at €150k.
Clear the loan, it's ~€165k.
What would you gain from having the uncle as a guarantor? (I believe this will depend on your Uncle's financial position but they may be able to provide you with a rough lower end guide)
If not, what additional lump sum would momomo require to get within range of the property?
From your own point of view, it's not keeping the house if you end up not being able to make repayments! Figure out exactly what you can afford and see what additional steps you'd need to cover things.