She wants to have a big family, and that is their choice.
But they are going to have to make sacrifices if they make that choice.
She is complaining that she can't live in Greystones a highly desirably area with very high house prices.
If she said "We wanted to have a big family so we relocated to Leitrim where we could afford to buy a 6 bed house on an acre of land" , I would say, fair play to her.
I actually listened to this piece on the back of your comments, which in my view are completely unreasonable.
Yes she acknowledged that she has a big family and she also acknowledged that she has scarified the opportunity of purchasing a house because of that.
Yes she is complaining she cant live in Greystones, but she is complaining that she has been ready to buy for two years and the market has accelerated away from her. She is now in a position that her lease is up. And specifically in relation to Purples comment:
Plenty of 4 bedroom houses within her budget within a 5kn radius of Greystones so
Good news!
She noted that she cant even get to bidding stage because the house listed for 500k already has a bid of +40/50k before she can get to view it.
Further, she noted that 5min from her house there are new builds for 585k that have been vacant for 4 years, and they wont accept any offers under that.
It seems that we have developed a culture in Ireland where people want something so they think that they have a right to it and don't have to make a sacrifice to get it.
From my listening to the piece, you have misrepresented the comments of this particular speaker. She was complaining about not being able to buy in her community, that's it. At no point did she indicate that she expected to have a right to anything. How did you infer that from what she said?
She didn't "use" the fact she has a large family in any way to look for some sort of help. It seems to me that her issues are all meritorious and they are the same as those reflected here (and elsewhere):
You can calculate the amount someone can borrow using any criteria you like but things happen that screw up the best laid plans and those things are more likely to cause people on low incomes to be unable to pay their mortgage. Indeed but you originally argued that using net disposable, as...
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In fact on that thread, you said (reasonably):
We have to focus on the real problems which are the lack of houses available for first time buyers and their high prices because it's expensive to build them and because investors are buying them to rent for social housing.
I still cant understand why you brought up the fact and implied, that someone cant participate in the housing discussion because state pays her her kids schooling? Like she wasn't grateful enough to participate?
I think you'll feel better if you 'talk to Joe'...