Headachecity
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I am on the brink of a breakdown since last Friday. We paid a deposit on the house we are buying in Feb and the contracts arrived at our solicitors last Thursday and have to be returned in 14 days so we are in a state. We (well we thought) had our mortgage organised, the valuer was sent out and our broker asked us for updated statements and utility bills and said that was it we were approved in principal and that loan offer was just a formality, this was at the end of Feb now. So, since the contracts arrived he has not answered his phone, told us one lie after the other. On Monday I got suspicious when he asked me for our DOB's and PPS numbers then how long we were in our jobs. I got suspicious that he had done nothing with our case so I asked my solicitor to contact the bank involved and god forbid they had never heard of us apart from the loan offer we got last year for a house we pulled out of and that time we were approved for €405k, this time we just want €360k, so what is going on?? Yesterday he rang us looking for how long my hubbie was in his job and to get a letter from his previous employer to fill the gap in before he started there, he is 2 years in his current job so we started to freak out. He told me on Monday the loan offer would be issued yesterday and nothing happened, he told us this morning it would be issued this afternoon and still nothing so I am in bits and so is my husband.
I think we have been declined and he is just avoiding us or are we over reacting but how can it take this long for a loan offer to be issued. Please help as we have saved for years for our first house and our kids are so excited about it and so were we and now I am scared that we have been knocked back. Does anyone suspect that we are onto a loser here and just accept it or are we over reacting??. Thing is. I rang him at 4pm looking for an update and he said he was on the other line to them and would be back to me in ten mins. Surprise Surprise not a sound out of him!!:mad:
I think we have been declined and he is just avoiding us or are we over reacting but how can it take this long for a loan offer to be issued. Please help as we have saved for years for our first house and our kids are so excited about it and so were we and now I am scared that we have been knocked back. Does anyone suspect that we are onto a loser here and just accept it or are we over reacting??. Thing is. I rang him at 4pm looking for an update and he said he was on the other line to them and would be back to me in ten mins. Surprise Surprise not a sound out of him!!:mad: