Come on Sarenco, stop being disingenuous. I certainly don't believe that 'deadbeat' is an 'innocuous phrase' - in fact, quite the opposite, I believe it to be a highly provocative word. I believe that its usage by Sandra and its reproduction by BB was designed to insult the mortgagees in distress and to elicit a condemnatory reaction from the type of person who signs the IMHO letter.
I'm not too sure about my 'highly emotive responses'? Would you care to provide examples? BTW - I stand over what I've written about what history has shown us - i.e. people turn on each other in times of financial distress and certain personality types thrive on fomenting discord. I also believe that the worst side of us - 'the primitive mechanism' - rears its ugly head when the pressure is on. Some of us lose reason, compassion and empathy when 'we don't get what we want' or when the limbic system is under sustained threat over a protracted period of time - and of course, some of us never have any access to compassion, empathy etc. in the first place and believe that others displaying these charcteristics are engaging in a fraudulent performance (there is little point in communicating with the latter personality type).
Besides, neuroscience has revealed that for us to arrive at a 'gut reaction' that we can trust, there needs to be a choreagraphy between our emotional and cognitive processing. In other words we can't make a decision that we can trust without having access to our emotions. If anger is an appropriate response, then so be it. There is a difference between appropriate anger and inchoate rage. I believe you may be confusing the two.
Antonio Damasio - the prominent neuroscientist - believes that 'we are not thinking machines, rather we are feeling machines that think'.
I wasn't being disingenuous, I was quite genuine about my understanding of the phrase. I've now checked my trusty Oxford dictionary and, where relevant, it defines a deadbeat as "North American: A person who tries to evade paying their debts". I really don't see how that could be described as "disgusting", "disparaging" or "highly provocative".
In contrast, phrases like "horrible little venture", "primitive mechanism", "misanthropes", "begrudge", "empathy deficit", "fraudulent performance" and (my personal favourite) "odious aspects of humanity" are all loaded with emotion.
I'm afraid I am not qualified to comment on your observations on human psychology and I have no idea whether your level of anger is appropriate or not.
Having got all that out of the way, is there any chance at all that you could address the substantive issue under discussion?
However in my own experience we do have a reasonable number of those who can pay but refuse to do so. They remain in their homes for a number of years paying nothing.
. BB consciously reproduced the paragraph that included it.
'Even people on SW have to pay something for their housing' - In Cork, it's 35 euros towards a property that accepts Rent Supplement and the same for a Social House. BTW - I'm in receipt of neither. Do you really believe that a bank would accept 35 per week in lieu of a 1400 per month mortgage? Would you support keeping someone in a house when they can only pay 10% of the mortgage? Would you consider this a sustainable mortgage? I'm aware that your sister was / is in some form of mortgage difficulty from your posts. Would you be OK with someone calling her a 'deadbeat' because she may end up costing the 'taxpayer' money?
This is where MARP can result in significant delays with progressing against some defaulters who refuse to co-operate. Bank will initiate legal process, but even in situations where it is clear that no effort is being made to reach a solution it can take up to 3 years to repossess a property. Court process tends to be extremely slow even where a borrower is clearly making no effort.Could you say why your bank has not initiated proceedings against them. Is it a legal difficulty
Lots of leaps there. I'm a fan of slow thinking.Besides, neuroscience has revealed that for us to arrive at a 'gut reaction' that we can trust, there needs to be a choreagraphy between our emotional and cognitive processing. In other words we can't make a decision that we can trust without having access to our emotions. If anger is an appropriate response, then so be it. There is a difference between appropriate anger and inchoate rage. I believe you may be confusing the two.
This is where MARP can result in significant delays with progressing against some defaulters who refuse to co-operate. Bank will initiate legal process, but even in situations where it is clear that no effort is being made to reach a solution it can take up to 3 years to repossess a property. Court process tends to be extremely slow even where a borrower is clearly making no effort.
Lots of leaps there. I'm a fan of slow thinking.
I'm not so sure so I'll hold off writing to him if that's ok.They are the words and ideas of Antonio Damasio. Why not write to him? I'm sure he would be interested in your erudite response.
The way I see it is pretty simple:
A owes B money
C wants to help A
C gives D's money to pay B
D won't vote for C
Will C retrospectively help those who years ago forwent family holidays, new cars, new clothes, and in some cases settled for less nutritious food in order to pay their mortgages when interest rates were 18% ?
Under no circumstances should the government use taxpayer monies (or monies borrowed on foot of potential future tax receipts) to build equity in the properties of mortgage defaulters.
As for this nonsense argument that people in these positions must be "terribly distressed" - why would anyone who isn't paying a single cent toward their accommodation be stressed?
Why just them?People who genuinely cannot afford to repay mortgage on average homes , must be assisted.