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Unless you are constantly watching your children, I don't think you are really keeping an eye on them. Nonces will show up where kids are to be found.I would rather have my children playing ball outside my gate instead of them to be somewhere that I cannot keep an eye on them.
Where was that suggestion made?
If you've made a decision to have kids - let them play in your garden and don't have them being a nuisance to other people who haven't had your kids!!!!
You're encouraging children to play on the street? FFS.
I am involved in a project which sought to preserve and encourage traditional street games for children and young people. There are huge advantages for children both physically and socially....
I agree fully with SarahMc. Most of us very hard in order to buy our homes and have our fancy 07 cars, or whatever, but it is very disheartening to read that so many 'not-in-my-back-yard' people basically begrudge children from kicking a ball outside their gates. This country will probably be beset by an obesity epidemic in years to come, much of which is related to the lack of outdoor pursuits for children.
I would have thought that most people understand that the kids kicking ball on the street (which is almost always in an estate by the way, and not on a major road) are typically well-adjusted individuals who will grow up reasonably fit and healthy and will buy homes and cars of their own which might occasionally get hit by a stray ball. Big deal !!!!
I'm sure most of the posters who oppose street football were dancing in the streets during Italia '90 and USA '94, so the fact that they have such a problem with spontaneous games of ball is rather hypocritical. Kids don't always have a suitable green space nearby, and many such spaces (where they do exist) are fairly forbidding in winter, being typically soaked wet/overgrown/badly lit.
So lay off on the kids. Most of them are probably decent young people who, although they occasionally hit OUR cars, or OUR windows, are just growing up and do not - in general - mean any real harm ...
I agree fully with SarahMc. Most of us very hard in order to buy our homes and have our fancy 07 cars, or whatever, but it is very disheartening to read that so many 'not-in-my-back-yard' people basically begrudge children from kicking a ball outside their gates. This country will probably be beset by an obesity epidemic in years to come, much of which is related to the lack of outdoor pursuits for children.
I would have thought that most people understand that the kids kicking ball on the street (which is almost always in an estate by the way, and not on a major road) are typically well-adjusted individuals who will grow up reasonably fit and healthy and will buy homes and cars of their own which might occasionally get hit by a stray ball. Big deal !!!!
I'm sure most of the posters who oppose street football were dancing in the streets during Italia '90 and USA '94, so the fact that they have such a problem with spontaneous games of ball is rather hypocritical. Kids don't always have a suitable green space nearby, and many such spaces (where they do exist) are fairly forbidding in winter, being typically soaked wet/overgrown/badly lit.
So lay off on the kids. Most of them are probably decent young people who, although they occasionally hit OUR cars, or OUR windows, are just growing up and do not - in general - mean any real harm ...
Nonces will show up where kids are to be found.
Why not have a word with your community police and let them know what is going on also tell them the time that the ball playing is taking place as well are reporting the damage that the ball is doing to your car. All the police have to do is make an appearance and have a word with them. The police will also caution about damage to cars and if they are responsible for it their parents will have to pay for the repairs.
Teapot
Next time the ball lands in your driveway, just take the damm ball away from them. Problem solved!
The world doesn't revolve around your property or your personal concerns.
For *generations* children have been playing in the streets of *every* town and city across pretty much all of Europe, and most of the entire planet. This is of course when they were not down the mine, in the fields or in the factory. They have also been playing in communal land, parks, waste land, etc . . .
For all this time they have also (at least some of the time) been breaking windows, damaging trees and annoying neighbours. This is not new.
What is new is that in some/many cases when this damage is caused there is no means to resolution or remediation. The 'grown up' no longer appears as a figure of authority, the police have no time for this, the parents don't accept responsibility.
This to me is the key difference - years ago, many parents sense of community and of right was sufficient to ensure that when they were aware of a nuisance caused by their children they would see to it that their children stopped. Nowadays, it seems that many parents (yes, I am a parent) see attempts to give out to their children as an affront, a challenge, an insult to them and to their family.
Of course, my rose tinted glasses aren't perfect and i realise that through the generations there were kids who were never controlled, parents who didn't care, neighbours who were annoyed and 'tortured' for years but I believe this was the exception rather than the rule.
On a positive note - my father came home from holidays a few years ago to find a foot shaped dent in the roof of his car. He was not impressed, but none the less he recognised that this did not affect the ability of his car to be driven or of the roof to keep the rain off. A few days after he came back, a sheepish looking teenager presented at the front door with a parent in tow. The teenager apologised, explained he had run over the top of the car as a dare and offered to pay for the damage to be fixed. The 'brand' garage wanted to charge something like €900 to do a bit of panel beating (can we say 'Celtic Tiger' ?), but my dad just whacked it back into shape himself. Kid learned a lesson in the practical cost (or at least the potential cost in this case), and the social cost of doing something like that and causing damage in the process. And how idd all this come about ? Because the parent in this case took the time and effort to recognise that the behaviour was not acceptable and correcitve action was taken.
This however, is different than the situation as described by the original poster and some recent ones where children have been advised that they are causing damage and nuisance and still persist with their behaviour. I don't envy people in this situation.
z
Next time the ball lands in your driveway, just take the damm ball away from them. Problem solved!
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