I don't agree with this sentiment and find it overly simplistic and not representative of the unfortunate circumstances many people are now in due to economic downturn rather than greed.Clara you and your friends are part of the problem with this country. Getting yourself into debt and then complaining and thinking about trying to get debt relief for your investment mistake. You have achieved your quality of life by yourself and you have to deal with that. You should just keep your head back down and live the life you created for yourself
Clara, I sympathise with the circumstances you find yourself in and I acknowledge that at face value it would appear that KBC should offer you some mitigation on payments as a sympathetic gesture. However, you must realize that the approach of any bank to this type of request is based on a business rather than personal scenario. The main criteria in assessing any request for a payment reduction is "affordability". This is based on net income against outgoings, with priority to be given to PDH and other secured debt and personal outgoings limited to the Guidelines as specified by ISI.
Kids savings are not an essential at this stage and you need to reassess these for the next couple of years. When you have a large burden of debt, savings need to be put on the back burner. The rainy day is now!!!