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Hey Everyone, just new on this site tonight because I have a query regarding Courts, Maintenance etc. I know, I know another woman on this site moaning about Men, but honestly this is not the case. The Father of my daughter walked out on us in October and hasn't seen or enquired about her since then, I have recieved numerous hateful text towards me, my eldest daughter and family etc and then he bagan denying that the baby was his and has done so for the past 3mths!!! Anyway Christmas is over and he's aboviously bored again and began texting me regarding stuff he'd left in my house so I returned them which he obviously didn't like my civil approach to the matter and lodge papers with the courts on Tues to have access and Gaurdianship??? So today I went to the solicators and had a letter drawn up and sent to him stating that he can have both and would he like to have access from next Saturday (why wait 6more weeks until the court date) which I'm sure will goo down like a lead ballon AGAIN!!! Anyway that's a little history so he's claiming disability Benefit and renting a taxi car & plateand works thursday to early hours Sunday morning. Solicator said that I would need solid proof of him working so should I hire a PI to get photos (as advised by solicotor today) just wonder on costs for 1. I have two children and work full time in the same job for over 10yrs, pay a mortgage and don't claim any benefits either so it's not that i'm looking for free money or to screw him but I'm very confused today and would like some advice. My eldest daughters Father and myself have a very good relationship and he pays religiously every week and sees her every weekend so I'm not used to all this angriness that is going on with Daddy number 2....God the shame of it all being dragged to court i'm mortified by it all.Sorry for rambling but any ideas would be gratefully apprieciated
Then this is not proper to SW forum.Perhaps legal forum?Hi, Thanks for the replys, no substance abuse that I know of. He lived with me for the 6mths and was great with baby and me. Very sad situation I feel like shaking him and shouting to grow up!!! I don't want the PI for the SW I want it for myself in court to have solid proof that he is working so he can pay for his daughter concidering that the creche is costing me €160 for three full days, not to mention the €220 in September when I return to wirk full time!!!
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