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Hey Everyon,
Just new on this site tonight and I have a query regarding Courts, Maintenance etc.
The Father of my daughter walked out on us in October and hasn't seen or inquired about her.
Since then, I have received numerous hateful text towards me, my eldest daughter and family etc and then he began denying that the baby was his and has done so for the past 3mths!
Anyway Christmas is over and he's obviously bored again and began texting me regarding stuff he'd left in my house. So I returned them to him. He obviously didn't like my civil approach to the matter and lodged papers with the courts on Tues to have access and Guardianship!
So today I went to the solicitors and had a letter drawn up and sent to him stating that he can have both and would he like to have access from next Saturday (why wait 6 more weeks until the court date) which I'm sure will go down like a lead balloon AGAIN!
Anyway that's a little history so he's claiming disability benefit and renting a taxi car & plate and works Thursday to early hours Sunday morning.
Solicitor said that I would need solid proof of him working so should I hire a PI to get photos (as advised by solicitor today) just wonder on costs for one.
I have two children and work full time in the same job for over 10yrs, pay a mortgage and don't claim any benefits either so it's not that i'm looking for free money or to screw him but I'm very confused today and would like some advice.
My eldest daughters father and myself have a very good relationship and he pays religiously every week and sees her every weekend so I'm not used to all this anger that is going on with Daddy number two.
God the shame of it all being dragged to court I'm mortified by it all.
Sorry for rambling but any ideas would be gratefully appreciated.
Just new on this site tonight and I have a query regarding Courts, Maintenance etc.
The Father of my daughter walked out on us in October and hasn't seen or inquired about her.
Since then, I have received numerous hateful text towards me, my eldest daughter and family etc and then he began denying that the baby was his and has done so for the past 3mths!
Anyway Christmas is over and he's obviously bored again and began texting me regarding stuff he'd left in my house. So I returned them to him. He obviously didn't like my civil approach to the matter and lodged papers with the courts on Tues to have access and Guardianship!
So today I went to the solicitors and had a letter drawn up and sent to him stating that he can have both and would he like to have access from next Saturday (why wait 6 more weeks until the court date) which I'm sure will go down like a lead balloon AGAIN!
Anyway that's a little history so he's claiming disability benefit and renting a taxi car & plate and works Thursday to early hours Sunday morning.
Solicitor said that I would need solid proof of him working so should I hire a PI to get photos (as advised by solicitor today) just wonder on costs for one.
I have two children and work full time in the same job for over 10yrs, pay a mortgage and don't claim any benefits either so it's not that i'm looking for free money or to screw him but I'm very confused today and would like some advice.
My eldest daughters father and myself have a very good relationship and he pays religiously every week and sees her every weekend so I'm not used to all this anger that is going on with Daddy number two.
God the shame of it all being dragged to court I'm mortified by it all.
Sorry for rambling but any ideas would be gratefully appreciated.