It’s not that I think you are clogging up the forums, or that you have a boring question. You have a very complex situation that has been ongoing for 20 years. It sounds as if some of your relatives have spent an awful lot of money and have not got the resolution they were looking for. You have been to a solicitor looking for professional advice.
All we can do here is urge you to follow the advice of your solicitor but be aware that it might cost you an awful lot. Both in money terms and mentally. A legal fight could consume years of your life. mf1 is well worth listening to, he gives very sound advice.
I don’t think anyone has a magic bullet that will solve everything for you. Only you and your solicitor will be able to gather all the information that will allow him to advise you of the next legal steps to take. Maybe you didn’t like his advice and will ask another solicitor. Every step like that costs money.
And maybe the best advice is to do nothing. I don’t know. But people are not advising you to do nothing because they think your relative is right, you make him sound like a truly horrible person, who should be told how awful he is. But it might only be all sorted when he dies. If you are significantly younger maybe wait until then and sort it out.
All we can do here is urge you to follow the advice of your solicitor but be aware that it might cost you an awful lot. Both in money terms and mentally. A legal fight could consume years of your life. mf1 is well worth listening to, he gives very sound advice.
I don’t think anyone has a magic bullet that will solve everything for you. Only you and your solicitor will be able to gather all the information that will allow him to advise you of the next legal steps to take. Maybe you didn’t like his advice and will ask another solicitor. Every step like that costs money.
And maybe the best advice is to do nothing. I don’t know. But people are not advising you to do nothing because they think your relative is right, you make him sound like a truly horrible person, who should be told how awful he is. But it might only be all sorted when he dies. If you are significantly younger maybe wait until then and sort it out.