It would be great if we could have about €30000 a year from the state and Irish Life. That's after we take the lump sum from Irish Life.
That looks like a reasonable plan.
The State pension should give you and your wife just over €20 per annum (assuming you have made enough PRSI contributions) so you need to generate an additional €10k or so.
Assuming your pension pot is still worth €380k on retirement, you can take a tax free lump sum of €95k, which leaves you with €285k to either buy an annuity or an ARF/AMRF.
A joint life annuity bought for €285k, even at today's low rates, should give you a guaranteed income for life of around €10k per annum, with 50% of that amount payable to your wife should you pre-decease her (with a small annual uplift).
The alternative is to buy an ARF/AMRF and gradually draw it down over time (4% of the fund per annum until the year you hit 71, 5% per annum thereafter). At that rate of draw-down it is unlikely - but not impossible - that you would exhaust your savings during your lifetime. The advantage of this option is that anything left over will form part of your estate (so you can leave it to your wife, your daughter, your favourite charity, etc).
From what you have told us, I suspect the guaranteed lifetime income provided by a joint life annuity might be the better option in your circumstances. But ultimately the choice is yours.
Incidentally, it would be worth checking what Irish Life fund you are invested in. You don't want your fund to take a big tumble in value just before you retire so at this stage you should be invested in something fairly conservative (primarily bonds and cash - not too much in equities or property).
Finally, you don't have buy an annuity from Irish Life (if you decide that is the better option) - shop around!
Hope that helps and that you enjoy a long and happy retirement.