Two separate issues:
1. Clearly you are not happy with the will. If so, it's up to you to challenge it. Whether that is on grounds of duress, undue influence, or that your mother was not competent to make her will when she did. Be aware though, the costs of such actions may well come from the estate. If you're going to challenge it though, you should do so sooner rather than later.
2. Delay in administrating the estate- you say you went to see the solicitor and he got 'narky' with you and said he would only communicate with the other executor from now on. It doesn't sound like a constructive meeting. Normally I would suggest making an appointment to see the solicitor as a starting point to someone who claims they are in the dark in relation to what is happening in an estate. However in your case you have already been to the solicitor and still don't seem to know. I find this strange. Did the solicitor not answer your questions- ie what's happening, why is there a delay, when can I expect to receive my money? If so, that is unreasonable and I would suggest you put it to them in writing, ask for a reply within a reasonable time frame and if you don't get it, certainly make a complaint to the Law Society.
1. Clearly you are not happy with the will. If so, it's up to you to challenge it. Whether that is on grounds of duress, undue influence, or that your mother was not competent to make her will when she did. Be aware though, the costs of such actions may well come from the estate. If you're going to challenge it though, you should do so sooner rather than later.
2. Delay in administrating the estate- you say you went to see the solicitor and he got 'narky' with you and said he would only communicate with the other executor from now on. It doesn't sound like a constructive meeting. Normally I would suggest making an appointment to see the solicitor as a starting point to someone who claims they are in the dark in relation to what is happening in an estate. However in your case you have already been to the solicitor and still don't seem to know. I find this strange. Did the solicitor not answer your questions- ie what's happening, why is there a delay, when can I expect to receive my money? If so, that is unreasonable and I would suggest you put it to them in writing, ask for a reply within a reasonable time frame and if you don't get it, certainly make a complaint to the Law Society.